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Bereavement
Most people experience grief when they lose something or someone important to them. If these feelings are affecting your life, there are things you can try that may help.
If you're not sure how you feel, try our mood self-assessment.
Symptoms of bereavement, grief and loss
Bereavement, grief and loss can cause many different symptoms. They affect people in different ways. There's no right or wrong way to feel.
There are other types of loss. Such as the end of a relationship or losing a job or home.
Some of the most common symptoms include:
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Shock and numbness. This is usually the first reaction to loss. People often talk about "being in a daze"
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Overwhelming sadness, with lots of crying
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Tiredness or exhaustion
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Anger. Towards the person you've lost or the reason for your loss
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Guilt. For example, guilt about feeling angry, about something you said or did not say. Or, not being able to stop your loved one dying
These feelings may not be there all the time. Powerful feelings may appear unexpectedly.
It's not always easy to recognise when bereavement, grief or loss are affecting you.
Things you can try to help with bereavement, grief and loss:
Do:
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Try talking about your feelings to a friend, family member, health professional or counsellor. You could also contact a support organisation. Such as Cruse Bereavement Care or call: 0808 808 1677
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Try the 6 ways to feel happy. These are simple lifestyle changes. To help you feel more in control and able to cope.
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Find out about how to get to sleep if you're struggling to sleep
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Think about peer support, where people use their experiences to help each other. Find out more about peer support on the Mind website
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Listen to free mental wellbeing audio guides
Don't:
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Do not try to do everything at once. Set small targets that you can easily achieve
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Do not focus on the things you cannot change. Focus your time and energy into helping yourself feel better
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Try not to tell yourself that you're alone. Most people feel grief after a loss and support is available
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Try not to use alcohol, cigarettes, gambling or drugs to relieve grief. These can all lead to poor mental health
Further information and support
You can find further information and support about:
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Grief and bereavement on the Cruse Bereavement Care website
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Losing someone to suicide on the Mind website
The GOV.UK website also has information about what to do after someone dies. Such as, registering the death and planning a funeral.
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/stress-anxiety-depression/coping-with-bereavement/
The Loss Foundation offer bereavement support following the death of a loved one to cancer. They offer a variety of support events to help people connect in loss. They offer workshops and training to educate and empower to support those feeling grief.
For more information or to access support from The Loss Foundation, please visit their website www.thelossfoundation.org